A wALleT A wALleT who cares about a WaLlEt?

So this past Monday seemed to be a typical day, I stay home and manage the home while C gets to go to work and make the bacon. C was so busy that he didn't have time to come home for lunch so he ran somewhere to grab a quick bite and then finally he finished his day and came home. He got home at a great time and we had dinner together (Most often due to the kids schedule they eat early because they go to bed around 730pm). Then after a wonderful sleep C wakes me up and asks me where his wallet is???? Why is it they always ask "the wife" where their wallet is??? isn't their responsibility to care for a little 6X6 piece of canvas??? So I get up to help him look for it. I'm getting a little testy at him, asking him where the last place was he remembered he had the wallet and then in return he's getting testy back at me saying he felt it and got the receipt out of his wallet to give to me.

All the day long I'm looking and reorganizing closets, looking everywhere even in places that little hands might have taken them, still no luck. C. would call me every so often to see if I found HIS wallet but no.... nothing!! The gals at his office ask him if he found his wallet when he came in from lunch, he was looking for it in our car and when he said he didn't they just shook their heads and said "it's a typical man losing his wallet again".

At the suggestion of my mom I decided to get Life Lock the Anti-identity theft professionals who will go to bat for you when you lose things such as wallets. Mind you this Company was probably founded due to a man constantly losing his wallet.

So it's Friday and still no wallet. Our bank accounts have changed and we have Life Locke and our marriage is still intact but we may never know what happened to C's wallet, I'm hoping that it will show up in the mail from some kind person who found it stranded all alone on a cold, dark and dirty parking lot.... the poor wallet!!!!

Has this horrible event ever happened to you???

34 yrs of gratitude

On Saturday, Nov. 8th I was born. After 34 yrs of being alive, it makes me very reflective about my life. Recently, during the LDS Conference session there was a lot of talk regarding being grateful, having more gratitude prayers and so forth. So Courtney and I after hearing this decided that we were not going to ask for things in our prayers anymore instead to thank Heavenly Father for all we have, much as the song "Count your many blessings" counsels us to do.

If you want miracles to happen do this, I can't describe so eloquently how the principle of gratitude blesses our very lives continually. I've come to realize that Heavenly Father does know what we need before we ask and he's so ready and willing to pour out those blessings to us. I've seen more miracles/blessings happen when I haven't ask for things instead just being grateful for what I do have. So in honor of my birthday I wanted to share with all of you a few things that I'm grateful for.

1. Mom, for having the courage to listen to the spirit when you were prompted to get pregnant w/ me even though your health was awful and the Dr. warned you not to and Dad was in agreement. Listening to that still small voice when you didn't know what to do for me during my trials in grade school.

2. Dad for being happy after mom was pregnant with me. Working hard for our family. Checking my car to see if it needed anything to be done to it. Cleaning my car off in the winter. Being the greatest example of what a husband and father should be.

3. All my brothers, for they have taught me many things, but above all them showing me that they love me. Picking outstanding woman to be my sisters-in-law, I have so much fun with them.

4. My sweet sister D.K. , who is always there for me. She has the biggest heart and forgives so quickly. She Dances to fun music and acts like she's in High school when we listen to her playlist. She can make any "somewhat" funny show turn into a "riot". Taking me to see an embalming for the first time w/ her friends. What an experience!

5. All my 19 neices and nephews. They aided in the fine tuning of preperation for motherhood.

6. My father-in-law, B. Who would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it. Teaching O.C. how to vacuum with perfection as well as teaching him to be a kind and wonderful husband and father.

7. My sweet hubby, O.C. he works so hard everyday for our family. He helps me get the kids ready in the morning if he has a second and helps me keep our home clean. I'm grateful that he appreciates all I do. He has a great sense of humor. He is truly my best friend and love. He took me to Rodizio Grille for my b-day, that was were we went on our first date and it was just as fun as the first time we went.

8. Yoda & Yodina (you'll have to check previous posts to understand who these two are) They bring an absolute sweetness and happiness into my life that I would never receive anywhere on earth. I've learned how to be more patient and understanding (though this is a process not an event). These two are my two most precious miracles in my life.

9. My dear friend Ape, for helping me understand the miracle of forgiving someone when your 10 yrs old you think they need to ask for your forgiveness. But then a mom tells you that it is me that would be hurting not my friend. So praying to forgive & love her as Heavenly Father loves her and instantly feeling an absolute love & forgiveness for her. Now we are the closest friends going through so much together. I think often what if we didn't forgive each other I wouldn't have had the experiences of having her for a wonderful friend. Ape has taught me more than I want to know but it's so worth it!

10. My Boston friends, all of you showed me how to serve in my callings better and be happy and care about others. We had wonderful talks, walks and fun at different restaurants together. These wonderful friends showed us how to have adventures and love life and not be scared to try new things.

11. My South Weber Friends. So many fun ladies to talk to and visit. Wherever we go their are fabulous people everywhere. These wonderful people are very kind and helpful, especially when we moved into a top story apartment. 3 flights of stairs + heavy furniture = friends for life. We have the greatest conversations. We hope to stay here in S. Weber for a long time.

I'm grateful for all the experiences and people I've been blessed to meet & get to know in my life and all the wonderful places I've been able to go to and live and see. As Mr. Roger's from Mr. Roger's Neighborhood would say......or sing........ "It's such good feeling to know your alive, it's such a happy feeling you feel it inside and when you wake up ready to say, I'm going to have a happy new day 1, 2, 3, 4, it's such a goooood feeling to know your alive!!!! anyway I didn't qoute the song verbadum but you get the message :)

I'm grateful for YOU!!!! thanks for being a part of my 34 yrs. I'm looking forward to the rest of my years. Talk about having an adventure waiting for you at the start of everyday.